Can You Date A Friend's Ex?
Dating My Best Friend’s Crush?
29 Dec My crush told me to not be mad at them and that I should let it go. Truthfully I'm so sorry your friend and your crush did this to you! It sounds like But I totally get where you're coming from: when I was in high school, my best friend went behind my back and started dating my crush when I went on vacation. 1 Sep If your friend wasn't aware of your crush, you might need to explain where you're coming from a bit more, but it's still a good idea to share. She suggests leading with the following: “Hey, I'm not sure if you knew, but I really liked [name of person ]. I'm happy that you two seem to have found happiness together. 27 Feb The decision to flirt with or date a friend's ex is fairly complicated. It depends on how long they dated, how the friend feels about them now, how close you are to your friend, and how strongly you feel for the ex. I've written my answers to these scenarios below. When you're the one with the crush: A crush can.
One of my bestest friends has known my crush for a while now, and she has known that I like him. This past week, she started dating my crush without telling me, and I heard the news from my crush.
My crush told me to not be mad at them and that I should let it go. Truthfully, I just want to stop being friends with both of them.
It is a big deal! The fact is, your friend betrayed you by going behind your back and doing something she knew would hurt you. You deserve a real apology from your friend — from HER, not her boyfriend.
It was the worst feeling in the world, and I was so mad and hurt that I stopped being friends with her. It was really hard, and I missed click for years after that.
Will it likely die off after each of you graduate high school? The fact that he had a crush on her is of no interest to anyone whatsoever since she rejected him. There are so many dating prospects out there for you.
You need to be honest with her. See what she says.
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If she seems genuinely sorry and wants to fix things, you can work on that if you want. Give yourself some time to get over this and move on from your crush. Honestly though, you may be better off without her in your life.
The situation sucks, but you shouldn't feel "guilty", IMO. Posted by Hjmoer on February 17, at I am still friends with the girl who had a crush. First and foremost, you should be honest with your best friend and tell them how you truly feel about their crush before dating their crush or attempting to date their crush. You mentioned that he said "He didn't want to ruin our new-found relationship.
You should find friends who treat you with the respect you deserve. Good luck and I hope you feel better! Send her your question at heather gurl.
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