10 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like Nice Guys
Dear ‘nice guys™’: this is why I don’t want you – Athena Talks – Medium
4 May "Nice guys", as in the guys who complain about how women don't like them because they're too nice, are more often uninteresting, insecure, and VERY entitled. They are the sort of guys who believe that if they open a door for a girl she should sleep with them, and if she doesn't give them the time of day it's because women. 14 May I'm getting tired of hearing the line that women don't like nice guys, that it's the jerks to whom they are really attracted. Because here's a little secret, gentleman: women LOVE nice guys. That's right. We want to end up with partners or husbands who are nice to us. Yep, when we close our eyes at night and. 19 Jul I'm really, really tired of this excuse: 'You don't like me because I'm nice.' On the contrary, I don't think I've ever dated someone I didn't consider nice. As someone who is widely considered the most vanilla girl-next-door on the planet, I'm not really into massive jerks. I like nice men. That's probably my type.
I like nice men. Because, frankly, you act as if doing me a favour, or treating me kindly, somehow grants you the god-given right to my body. Not so, sir, not so. This particularly grates me if we are friends. Maybe I chatted to you at a party or we went out for lunch between lectures, but now you are trying to kiss me or have begun sending me very sexual questions.
Is that even possible? Has that thought crossed your fragile ego at all?
In fact, most men have, at one point or another, uttered the phrase, "Nice guys finish last" as a way to explain their dating problems, single statuses, and more. Perhaps one of the ugliest feelings in the world is feeling like you owe someone something. This completely negates what a great guy they appeared to be in the beginning. They completely forget women have a sexual side to them. Maybe I chatted to you at a party or we went out for lunch between lectures, but now you are trying to kiss me or have begun sending me very sexual questions.
You could be amazingly good looking. You could be smart, funny, witty, rich, charismatic, charming, successful, great at rollerskating, whatever.
Or, they may want a nice girl when they themselves are quick to call women "whores" online. It almost seems like most men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy category. In many cases, they will go so far as to befriend a woman in hopes that she will have sex with him. To make matters worse, most women already realize what the guy's game is because he will give insanely preferential or even exaggerated treatment to attractive women over everyone else. The heart wants what it wants.
The heart wants what it wants. If you take it VERY personally, and get abusive with me, all you are doing is irritating me further. I will just walk away.
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Becoming antagonistic towards a woman for not wanting to sleep with you is simply childish and petulant. Also, have you considered that I might actually be an okay friend? I have other qualities beside my ability to lie on my back. We do have more. There is more than relationships.
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I blame this in part on our stupid culture. In this day and age, a man over 15 without a girlfriend, or, even source, regular casual sex, is kind of pathetic. So some young guys go around their merry way desperately looking for any female to fill in this weird phallic shaped void in their social ego.
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